You will find that jealousy whilst swinging is something that is actually pretty common. As a swinger you are going to have to deal with your own feelings of jealousy as well as the feelings that other swingers will have. It can end up being a bad situation if it is not handled in a way that can make everybody feel better. Jealousy is not something that can usually be helped and usually can end up ruining a swinger’s relationship with other swingers and their own partner.
Comparison
What will usually get feelings of jealousy started is when they begin to compare themselves to other swingers. As a swinger, you need to make sure that you do not compare the people that you swing with, with each other. This can end up hurting a lot of feelings and causing a lot of fights. The more you see everybody as equals the better chance you will have at having to worry about things like jealousy coming in and ruining the night.
Honesty
Honesty is something that can usually help with feelings of jealousy. Usually, mistrust and jealousy will go hand in hand. If you are not being trustworthy to a person, then their feelings of jealousy are going to go through the roof. Make sure that you are honest with the people that you swing with and that you let them know what is going on with you sexually. This is something that can help with feelings of jealousy. Just don’t try to become too honest and too descriptive.